Homeless Kids
I don’t know if are ready to acknowledge it not, but it is a plague. An ever increasing number of kids are being turned out into the streets to fend for themselves. My friends Benny and Niki Nowell lead a ministry that serves teens and young adults who are homeless in Boulder, CO. That part of Colorado seems to be a magnet for troubled and homeless young people. Everyday they serve kids who are living and sleeping on the streets as well as those who bounce from couch to couch, but really have no place to call home. Drug abuse is a significant factor in these kids’ lives. They are of course easy targets for human traffickers and others who prey on the most vulnerable among us. I hope to travel to Boulder soon to spend some time with the Nowell’s. The kind of ministry they do appeals to me. I have found in recent weeks however that I am getting my share of experience right here in our own little bedroom community to Ft. Worth.
A school administrator shared with a meeting of ministers from Granbury that there a handful of kids right here in our own community who have no place to call home. They too move from house to house looking for a warm place to sleep and take a shower. That same administrator called me a couple of weeks ago regarding a young man who only had one pair of badly worn jeans to wear to school.
In my work with law enforcement agencies here, I have seen several teen runaway cases recently. And then not too long ago I worked with some officers on a situation involving some underage girls who were seemingly involved in prostitution. They were homeless girls from another state who had nowhere to go and no one to turn to for help. When I asked them about their parents, they indicated that there was no parental relationship intact. Our church recently reached out to a young man who was sleeping outside in various locations around town. I don’t have any easy solutions to this ongoing plague. I can’t share many details about any of these situations, because of the need for confidentiality. But I can say that the kinds of scenarios I am describing are becoming far more commonplace. They are by no means confined to large cities either. What is the answer?
I don’t have any simple solutions. Really to be honest I don’t have any solutions at all. I am frustrated with parents who are not responsible. That is a common theme. Most of these kids have been abused, neglected, and ultimately abandoned by the adults in their lives. Accountability has to enter the picture somewhere. But what about the status of these young people in the meantime? My hunch is that responsible adults are going to have to reach out to these kids one person at a time. We may have to quite literally take a child in and treat him as one of our own. It works. All of us are going to have to pool our resources, our ideas, and a huge dose of streetwise compassion to formulate creative ways of addressing this growing plague. Maybe I need to go see Benny and Niki sooner than later! By the way, their web address is: www.sevensonline.org
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It is unsettling at best to invision our youth void of something as basic as shelter and food. I see this disturbing issue in another light as a teacher – with the great charge of educating our youth. When I was trained to teach I was taught a lot about theory and about what to teach; not a lot about who I was teaching. So, each year, as any good teacher would, I always begin with a strict, detailed agenda of hardy lessons on beloved content. However, as the days unfold I quickly realize that the kids today need so much more. Through the years, many of my students have come to school each morning not just without breakfast or clean clothes, but without a sense of identity, worth or belonging. The ramifications of a parent's neglect are far reaching; catastrophic. The expanded role of the teacher; of the neighbor; of the minister; of the friend is now to include in loco parentis (in place of parent). My job as an educator, who is accountable for the delivery of content, is second to my duty to my fellow human being – my student, to instill in them that sense of value that they so desperately crave. It is our good fortune to have the ability to take a life that is broken and build upon it and make it better. For, as it said, "A diamond with a flaw, is far better than a stone that is perfect." They (the children) are our diamonds, we are but stones!Investing in our youth in any capacity is always worth it!
Hen and Chicks, I'm glad you're out there!
I am with you, Leah. I am even fortunate to work with her occasionally!
Streetwise compassion. I like that. I think I'm going to use that. 🙂
It is wonderful that you get the heart of what we do and that you encompass that streetwise compassion yourself. In our summer program, we make it a point to tell our participants that we're not teaching them to go home and work with the homeless, we're teaching them how to go home and love on the people in their neighborhood and meet the needs that are specific to where they live.
Thank you for believing in what we do and who we are. Your encouragement and understanding is such a gift! 🙂
Thank you Leah and Dr. Knox!