There was no shortage of attendees at the 50th wedding anniversary party for Thomas and Barbara Mason last Saturday. Their reception was held at the church across the street from the preacher’s home, where they exchanged vows on June 10th, 1960. We all visited with family members whom we have not seen for several years. That was especially gratifying.

About midway into the reception I noticed my mother-in-law visiting with some Hispanic guests whom I did not know. She eagerly introduced me to her special friends. In recent months, Barbara has taken on the task of serving as a volunteer ESL (English as a second language) teacher. The church where she attends recently instigated such an effort in their community, which is now 75% Hispanic.

Working with someone who possesses limited English skills is totally out of Barbara’s comfort zone. She has been a farmer’s wife for 50 years! When she was not busy raising four girls, she was driving a grain truck or moving irrigation pipe. She speaks no Spanish whatsoever.

I am not sure that I can convey effectively what I witnessed at the reception between Barbara and her student. I could feel the love and admiration that Alejandra has for my mother-in-law instantly. It is difficult to describe what I saw, so I will share what Alejandra wrote to Barbara. Bear in mind that this young lady is in the process of learning English.

Thanks Barbara to teach me love, and love me, think in me, pray for me. I’m proud of your really lovely love for others.


God bless you more,

Alejandra

I have a strong suspicion you now have some inkling of what I observed Saturday. As that scene unfolded before me, I was immediately convicted.  Here I am taking Spanish classes, because I want to be fully bi-lingual.  And all I could think about Saturday during the reception was: “I am so full of it.” Barbara does not know how to say “hi” in Spanish, but she is highly effective. There is one reason for that: Love transcends all language and cultural barriers.

Alejandra’s English skills are actually pretty good. She just needs someone to help her to build on what she already knows. And most importantly she needs someone to help develop her confidence. As I talked with her Saturday, I could tell that she is not self-assured. She does not think her English skills are very good. She obviously has the right teacher! Barbara will encourage her and build her up in untold ways! Alejandra’s life will not be the same.